So I met a guy from tinder, ( I know, alarm bells going off already), just over a few weeks ago. I wasn't that bothered about meeting him initially but we ended up really hitting it off on the first date, we talked till the bar closed and he ended up coming back to mine, nothing happened though, we just kissed. He spent the whole of the next day at mine and he was already planning our next date. Since then he's been round to cook for me and we've hung out during the day too and had nights together that didn't even involve sex. However, my problem is that since that initial spark and wanting to spend lots of time with me, he's flaked on me at least once every week. He takes hours to respond to my texts, although he always initiates contact but sometimes this isn't after days at a time. Over a week ago, I got pretty fed up when he invited himself over after going out but he didn't think to invite me out with him. He's met most of my friends now. I tried to break things off at that point as I did start to feel like I was a booty call, sex started to dominate a lot of our conversations. I told him I wanted something less casual and I didn't like things where things were heading. He responded saying how sorry he was that he'd made me feel that way and that he'd like to continue seeing me. I saw him that day and things seemed fine. Since then he's responded even less and he's cancelled all the dates that he'd initially planned. He sent me a really apologetic text today as he was supposed to come over but he didn't message me all day, so I decided to just go ahead and cancel before he did again. I've been on other dates since he started to go cold as I've wanted to keep busy and not seem too needy. Annoyingly it's this guy that I really like though. Should I give him another chance or is this guy just not in to me?
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He's not a flake if anything your the needy one and looking for attention.0