So I recently met this guy who lives in manhattan crazy rich, goodlooking and really down to earth and sweet guy. He is open and doesn't seem like a player and he has been open about his past encounters too. Very career Oriented and probably every girls dream! But here is the problem I am really not feeling it. I don't know what it is? He even proposed me for marriage but it's just my heart is not settling. I really don't know what it is. He is just perfect !!! I don't want to say no to him and later regret about it..I don't know what to do? Anyone have same experience?
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Here's your problem. You describe him as rich, good-looking, and educated. These are all superficial traits.
A woman that truly loves her man and has a genuine appreciation for him would describe him in more endearing terms. He's thoughtful, loyal, protective, understanding, etc. In other words, he touches your heart and not just your female ego (the hypergamous material chaser)
You don't love him as a man. You love what he symbolizes. You're after the superficial traits he posseses, and by virtue of this, you're living on the shallow end of a lie.2