The guy I am talking about was a previous
Boyfriend of mine but we had our bumps and after 5 months broke up well we haven't really let eachother go and its been about a good year since weve been apart of each others lives. Well I get stuck sometimes because weve never officially gotten back together
We still cuddle up together say I love you send cute text messages go out to eat go grocery shopping together cook together all of that relationship stuff we do it but he doesn't want to put a title to us he says because he needs to take care of his business first before he gets involved again with me as my boyfriend that he's not ready to settle down so right now he just wants to take things slow
he's told me that he thinks we can become official again but that im always rushing him and that he's not ready to settle down he wants his freedom while he can I guess while he's still young. We do have a rule in place as far as exclusiveness goes which seems like a relationship to me! But he won't say were official
I realize where he's coming from and I realize that yes we are very young and should be enjoying freedom right now but at the same time its not freedom because were still tied to eachother so why not make us official?
Im only 21 though and him 22 so should I not be worrying about that right now, about a serious relationship? Should I just go with it and let what happens, happen? See where and if it goes somewhere?
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This hurts me cause a girl did this to me. Hun if you're in love you're no really " enjoying freedom", are you? Why not put a label on it? If I knew I loved this girl I would put any label on it there is. This is like in the rom coms when two people who are clearly meant for each screw it up and you just wanna scream at them or hurt them ;)
You should think about what you truly want out of this and then tell him and ask him what he wants. Otherwise I think you're gonna get hurt and maybe strung along.0
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