It might sound mean of me but I feel this the first stop on the way to the friendzone. Am I being mean or not?
- Yes, at least still be her friend.Vote A
- No, you are totally right.Vote B
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You're only a jerk if you're rude to her or give her the cold treatment. But if you simply stop initiating contact, then that doesn't make you a jerk.
I'll tell you though, that stopping contact won't always get you out of the friend zone. She rejected you because she decided you're not what she's looking for, and that's not an easy thing to change. You'd be better off just being her friend (or not. whatever you want) and moving on to someone more suited to you.0