I like a guy who is considered a geek/nerd. For example, he works at a gaming workshop and in his spare time he constructs miniature models of the game figurines. I really like him because of his qualities. The only problem is I'm I'm used to dating guys that are not considered nerds so the usual flirting and games don't work with him. Any suggestions on how to get the guy or nerd in this case?
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It would seem all to often that we are of the impression that we have to "be" a certain way to get to know somebody better. While I can appreciate that approaching this guy might be something new for you, and that you want it to go well (a good thing). I would recommend that you just be yourself and be honest with him, in the sense that you would like to ask him out, start out with something small like asking him to coffee, this way you are both in a familiar setting and you can talk a little more to him, to find out if you have similar interests. While you may not build miniatures the idea seems to intrigue you, and you might ask him more about that, who knows you might develop an interest in it. At least you will have a common ground from which to form further conversations. Additionally if he gets to know you a little better he may have some questions for you as well. At any rate I hope this helps you some. Be well.0