'm 36 and no gf.. should I throw in the towel? There's no hope
I'm 36 and no gf.. should I throw in the towel?
What Girls Said 11
Well can you honestly 100% say that you tried your absolute hardest and have maximized your opportunities? in my opinion there is someone out there for everyone but it might mean that you have to endure many rejections, heartbreaks and failures. Very few people in life seem to get it easy when it comes to love. It's honestly a battleground and you will likely get wounded...over and over again. But the truth is, eventually you'll lead to victory as long as you never give up. Throwing in the towel is just setting yourself up for a life full of wasted opportunities and misery. Hang in there.1
stop looking so hard. she probably right in front of you.
change up your daily activities; if you dont have any get some, there are so many people in the world its ridiculous when people give up, dont be lazy cause anything worth working for is always the best.
for example i started going to the gym again and i can't even begin to tell you the types of people you run into or start conversations with.0
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Yep. I would.2
Are you too picky, perhaps? The perfect woman doesn't exist. Just focus on finding a person that you're compatible with, and you'll be fine.0
nope..get out there and meet new people! :)0
NEVER GIVE UP0
Join the club.0
What Guys Said 11
If you are obsessed with finding a girlfriend you are never going to find one that is good for you. You will end up with a lot of miss right nows, and not a miss right.
It happens when it happens.
Im 36 and Im single and I just live my life. Searching for your one true love is not really viable. It will happen or it will not. But giving up hope really is not much for a happy life.
I've been single more or less for about six years, and I have dated a few people, most of which ended up like something out of a horror movie or worse, but it never stopped me from hoping. Giving up hope is giving up on happiness. I do take breaks from dating. But it doesn't stop me from being happy no matter what. If you aren't happy with yourself you are never going to be happy with anyone, always remember that.1
If you have the strength to draw breath then you have the strength to continue to chase whatever you want in life. There are people in this world that struggle desperately to survive to the point that they can't even think about finding a girlfriend. You're in a privileged position my friend ;)2
Is throw in the towel a euphemism for masturbate?
If so probably, though you could try holding off it might give you the kick to go hit on more girls ;p2
Nope you never too old to keep trying, so don't throw in the towel, as their are women in you situation too.0
Never too late man.1
I'm getting up there too, I think there are better things to spend your time on then looking for, or thinking about relationships. Even with you ideal mate it probably wouldn't be worth it. Devote yourself to something that matters to you or would be revolutionary.0
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We always say there are no guarantees in life, but people seem to think that everyone is guaranteed to find a mate. How hypocritical. It's cool being single. You have been brainwashed your whole life into believing that you need a gf to feel complete, but you don't. Live your life and when you have urges, go get a hooker or escort. Every guy pays for sex anyways regardless if its Valentine's day or a brothel in Vegas. You will save and have more money.0
No shame in giving in. Everyone has a breaking point.1
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