They have given them kids, love and support. They have even wasted money and time on these relationships to make it work. They have invested money they worked for to go out on trips and gifts for these cheating men. They have paid mortgage to have a house with these undeserving men. This all goes vice versa because women cheat too. What do you think about the chump partner?
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First things first, I don't feel it's my place to judge somebody else and their choices, as I'm sure they have their reasons. Secondly every relationship is unique, granted this doesn't make it a good or bad relationship. However I can speak from some degree of experience in the sense that my first wife stepped out on me, and when she revealed this to me and that she was carrying somebody else's child, I agreed to stay with her if she would quit cheating, and additionally I would raise the child as my own, after-all it's not the fault of the child. At any rate, she ended up leaving me anyway, which looking back on it now, was probably more of a blessing in disguise than anything that might have happened had she stayed. Just before she left though, it became clear to me that being alone and having nothing was better than all the pain I went through, and I also knew that when I got into another relationship, that while I will tolerate a lot, cheating will be my breaking point, and when I met my now wife, I made a point to make sure she understood this, and fortunately for me, she has been true to me. So how does this affect my thoughts on others? Well I know it took me a while to get to a quitting point, so maybe they haven't gotten there yet.0