My bf told me once that I suck in bed. But yet he is still with me after 9 months? Why would he stay with me if I was that bad? Also he told me before that if i ever break up with him he will tell people I'm a physco gf so no one will want to be with me. I know I shouldn't stay with him because of him saying stuff like that but I I love him and he can be a sweetie.
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Simple: he's saying these things to MANIPULATE you and undermine your confidence in yourself. That way, YOU can be blamed for anything that goes wrong, even if HE does it, and YOU will feel bad. It's his way of having power over you.
It's also bullshit, and if you stay with a guy like this and tolerate that kind of treatment, then you are a fool who is going to be badly hurt before it's all over, and to a certain degree, it WILL be your fault.
Hopefully, you have more self-worth than to put up with this a-hole.2