What does that even mean?
You this really common dating advice "stop looking and he'll find you"
Does that work?
And would you actually do that? The only reason I'd stop looking really would be to find someone.
I'm happy in general. I have great friends, I'm involved in sport in charities and I love what I'm studying but one thing I've never had is a boyfriend. And I'm 21 now, I begin to really want that, but it's just not happening for me. And sometimes I get really sad because of that.
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It's total bull but it's well intentioned bull. When people say stop looking what they mean is stop worrying. Stop letting marriage and boyfriends and dating be the center of your life. Let you be the center of your life and go do the things you want to do. And that's when he'll come. Not because you're not looking but because you have blossomed into a desirable woman. A woman who is happy doing what she loves and being who she is. A woman that doesn't feel like she's missing anything. And desirable men can recognize desirable women. There's no guarantee but if your doing it right you won't care.0