Ok so I have been hanging out with this girl for about 3 months and about a month ago I told her the way i felt and she told me the way she felt and we started our relationship. Since than i have tried to be patient but I think due to her past relationships with guys being dicks and cheating on her she feels very guarded and it is hard for her to trust me. Its been a month and we have barely kissed. Now I understand her situation but I also feel sometimes like she doesn't like me and other times I feel like she can't like me more. Should I talk to her about this or should I just let it play out. She confuses the hell out of me. Additionally I dont think she realizes how much I actually like her I mean I think im falling for her but im afraid to tell her because I dont want to scare her away. Any help or opinion would be appreciated thanks.
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She sounds like she's nowhere ready to be in a relationship again. After horrible experiences, it can take years to fully heal. I would tell her that you're willing to work with her, but you're not those guys. If she isn't willing to work on her trust issues, know that you don't intend to hurt her, and doesn't want that close intimacy, you can't change her. She's got to want that again and fix herself on her own time. If she doesn't want your help, she doesn't. I think you need to figure out where you stand and go from there. It's not fair for her to expect you to just tolerate the mixed signals. You have feelings/wants/needs. You two need to communicate.1