I'm 18, never had a real girlfriend. Never had my first kiss, obviously virgin. As time goes by my desire of being In a relationship grows stronger.
All my friends have girlfriends even tho I used to be the one that received more attention from girls.
As I grow from a cute kid to a man I feel like I'm not so pretty anymore and that all the girls that ever loved me thought that I was pretty and since I don't think girls still like my looks, because this girl I loved didn't like me back no matter how hard I tried and its been a while since a girl told me I was cute, my self esteem is really low.
The fact that I don't have much experience with girls also contributes to this idea that I'm garbage and don't even deserve a girlfriend because I would probably mess everything up.
Am I being too hard on myself? What can I do to regain more confidence? Should I try to meet more girls even tho I consider most girls to be out of my league? I also think that my low self esteem makes a lot of girls look out of my league even if they re not.
Would I be more likely to have a girlfriend, a wife, get laid, whatever, If I had more confidence in my
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reading this is crazy, this is exactly what my life is like! but with boys not girls, obviously, haha. In my opinion, I've been told the same two reasons over and over. 1) I'm too intimidating (which i find hard to believe)
and 2) that my complete and utter lack of confidence shows on the outside, and is a put off to the opposite sex.
I personally think the exact same things about myself, the whole "I'm garbage and don't even deserve a girlfriend because I would probably mess everything up" is what I tell myself multiple times a day, and in my head it's sounds rational and explains why noone is interested it me, but reading it on here as someone else's thought process just seems so ridiculous! Of course you deserve love! Everyone does! I honestly think you are being far too hard on yourself, and you need to boost your self confidence. If going to the gym makes you feel confident, do it. If buying new clothes makes you feel confident, do it! Confidence is one of the most attractive features in a man, so get out there, put yourself out there, and you might be surprised. goodluck sugar xxx1