So I with this guy and yep I've fallen big time, I am sure its just going to bust out of me here soon so I just want to tell him - do it and just make sure he knows exactly where I am. How bad is it for the girl to say I <3 U first? Is it a better idea to wait for him?
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Where love is concerned there's always an element of risk. Love (romantic love) is always a leap of faith. Obviously somebody has to say it first. Over-thinking when it comes to a strategy of who says it first is probably counter-productive. There's no guarantee of what his reaction will be. But if you guys have been together a while, and if you feel this in your heart, I would lean toward telling him how you feel. After all, it's genuine on your part, and whatever happens you were true to your heart.0