Okay so this hot guy who's 4 years older than me is totally attracted to my appearances, we were about to make out this one time and I stopped it. And we kissed only. He talks to me about sexual things and tells me that I should learn more.. Clearly, I want to makeout with him and have fun and all that. But I don't want him to be just into it for this, I want him to like me for not just my body. How can I do that? Any tips?
He's considered one of the hottest guys here in my city, so you can't blame me.
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If he is unwilling to invest in getting to know you for a reasonable amount of time prior to making sexual advances towards you, sex is likely his primary agenda.
Now, I know, I know, most guys want sex. The difference is, in many cases, in the sacrifices a guy would make to be with you.
No sex for now? "No problem", he should say to himself if he really wants to be with you.
Take things slow, considerably if need be. Don't introduce sex into the equation until he has demonstrated a genuine effort to learn of the things that are important to you, and until you are comfortable that he wants the type of relationship you want.0