Boyfriend blew off our date and I overreacted a bit and told him to please not contact me again. I explained my reasoning--that I don't want to continue with someone who isn't reliable. I just got out of a bad relationship with tons of games and lying and I don't want to do it again (he knows this).
He went completely ballistic, telling me he wasn't going to contact me again, and called me a ***** about several times, and continued to yell at me. I apologized several times, but now he is ignoring me. He always does this when we are in a fight--ignores me and shuts down. He always has to be in control and has a terrible temper.
Anyways, I know I screwed up, but beyond apologizing again, is there anything more I can/should do to work things out?
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Whew. Let's see, how many dates have you been on with him? If this was the first one then I could understand, but if he has dated with you for a while and this is the first time he missed it then your reaction was a bit harsh. I understand your feelings on being played with, but don't let your past b/f's mistreating you cause you to take it out on your new one. His reaction was a bit wild too, but if he's done it before and came back then I guess keep doing what you have always done. Was alcohol a factor? Anyways, just let things cool down and see what happens. You shouldn't have to break your back trying to make things work with someone tho :)
Hope it all works out!0