Ok so this might sound kinda shallow but when it all comes down to it can you really be with someone who you are not attracted to physically? there's this girl that I've been talking to and she's a lot of fun to talk to and easy to have a conversation with! I like her personality from what I've seen so far but Im just not attracted to her physically at all, like the thought of me kissing her or doing anything like that doesn't really turn me on at all. she's been hinting that she wants me to take her out on a date but I've just been acting stupid like I don't know what she's hinting at... I don't want to keep leading her on like this so do you think it would be a good idea to date someone who your not attracted to?
- Yes I think it could work out even if you do not find her attractiveVote A
- No I don't think it would be a good ideaVote B
Most Helpful Girl
Absolutely not. Why would this even be a question. Your not attracted to her then just keep her as a friend, I don't get what's the big deal about that, if your not attracted then your not that's it. Who cares if you think her personality is great, it'll still be a great personality after wards too. Just don't lead her on, now that's messed up to do. She'll get over you, don't even compromise on that, it won't ever work and nothing good will ever come from your "relationship" with her cause it's fake.1