Does it ever bother you that women and girls don't have to do much to get noticed? In other words she just has to look approachable and guys will come. But if your a guy you have to have a good job, nice car be over 6ft tall etc to even get noticed. I'll admit I check out a lot of female profiles and a lot say In a Relationship and I say to myself yeah what a shocker like she had to do anything to get noticed. I'm starting to feel more and more awful being a guy because society puts so much pressure on us to be the ''ALPHA MALE''. And who came up with that anyways? And what about Its the guys job to approach? That's another thing I hate. Women are brainwashed by the media into thinking they can't approach. Yes I know some women approach but not as often as men. All I'm saying is I don't think females know how easy or how lucky they have it when it comes to dating. That's probably the reasons why some guys grow up to be bitter hateful, women haters or worse criminals.
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I completely and totally disagree.
Imagine being a woman in a world where almost everything SEEMINGLY comes down to looks. When you live in that world, you have to make a lot of determinations about the men that chase you:
-Are they just in it because they think I'm hot?
-Are they just trying to score some easy ass, and they don't even care what I look like, let alone care about me as a human being?
-Are they really interested in me as a person? And if they do care about me as a person, are they just settling for me and they don't actually think I'm hot?
And then consider the apparent plight of women that are deemed physically undesirable by general societal standards.
Can you imagine what it would be like to have most (and according to SOME people, ALL) of your worth tied to something that you have ZERO control over? That must be fucking terrible.
So no, I do not think that women have it easier as it relates to dating. In fact, I'd say that we men have it better, as we have societal permission to chase whomever we want whenever we want to. Even though we don't get every girl that we want, at least we're allowed to pursue them freely and unabashedly.
If a woman pursues a man she's often seen as pushy, overzealous, easy, slutty, too masculine, or she might be seen as an undesirable that has had to take matters into her own hands. That does not sound like an enviable place to be in.3
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