I met a guy online. We are both in our early 40s. I was married and in serious relationships all the time. He was never married.
We went out on 3 dates. The communication between the dates was hard...he isn't good in keeping in touch. Also, to make plans with him was tough..he is renovating and he is really having a hard time with it...doesn't have a shower at his place now.
I could text him in the morning and he would phone that night or following day. Anyways, he isn't great in that area.
Date 3 came and I went to his place. We sat on the couch watched a movie, held hands a bit and there was some very light touching..he didn't touch my intimate area. I was at him for about 3 hours-it was very late already. He was also tired-came back from his cousin's funeral. She was his age. I admit that I was reserved and didn't really go with the flow..didn't eat or drink anything that he offered besides Zero. My friend said she would have been easier..initiated more.
The following day I text him and after a few hours he got back to me. He wanted to meet but had to go to his family. Said we can meet maybe Saturday and we live very close to each other so it's not a problem. Saturday came and i called him in the morning to see if he wanted to meet..he didn't answer. A few hours later i sent him a message to ask if he was okay. He didn't answer. At around 23:00 he sent me a message 'Sorry, i disappeared a bit today'. I asked if everything was okay -he said yes..the usual. I wrote that i thought we would meet today. He didn't respond.
Sunday night i wrote 'Hi, what are your plans for today?' with a smiley. Until now I haven't heard from him.
Finally, after 3 years of being single and scared to date coz of my experience with my ex i agreed to go on a date and it was great.
I am really really upset that he disappeared and don't know why. There could be many reasons..what do guys think about this?
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Sounds like there's no chemistry between you, and he's more ready to accept that than you are.0