Im just wondering if there's a point of approaching girls if its always going to end in rejection?
You're either not interested in them so you dont bother, or you're interested in them and they're going to reject you
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Okay, I'm going to tell you something that you're not going to want to hear but it's the truth and by telling you I'm saving you a lot of crap.
If you can't get women to pay attention to you, it is your fault. Period.
Now what to do is the question here, right? I would say improve yourself, gain some confidence, talk to some girls online, see what they say, and eventually you'll get this figured out.
But do not, I repeat, DO NOT EVER blame the women. Don't do what the MRA douche bags do. Don't try to be a pick up artist or anything like that. The "Manosphere" is your worst enemy. Do not ever, EVER take any advice from any of them at all. Ever.
This is a problem with you, not them. Now you have to figure out what it is and work on fixing it. When you do that you'll be able to approach women and sometimes it will work out. Most of the time they don't want to be approached though, so figure out where and when it's appropriate to do that and respect them like human beings because they are. Men and women are a LOT more similar than you think.
One more thing. If you know of any girls who like you, give them a shot unless you're just totally against it. Who knows, maybe you'll figure out they're cooler than you think. Attractive women are just people like you or me. All women are, in fact. Not a big mystery here. Just listen, learn, and be a decent human being and you'll be good.4
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