Not saying they all do but these types of men have no shortages of female attention from what I've seen. What is the appeal? Before you go on any further, I'm not trying to sound like an ass or be judgmental. It's just more or less, objectively, how it is.
Even some of the prettiest, classiest girls settle way below their level of worth and date "dead-end" guys that can sometimes just be flat out dingy and dirty looking. It's really kind of gross. Sorry, but I don't understand it.
Why not a guy that is motivated, takes care of himself, is a gentleman, and that is either on his way, or already works a really good job, above all the typical low wage jobs you can find anywhere?
I know that a lot of women grow into that also where they will end up with a guy like that, but why do they have to "learn" that that's what's best for them? How could you not just want that from the beginning? It's pretty obvious as to who offers the better package, I would think.
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A lot of girls date to take away their loneliness and deal with their dependency issues - not because they actually like the guy or see value in who he is - they just want somebody - anybody. Guys do this too but girls do it more often - this is why sometimes losers get away with acting like jerks and still having attractive girlfriends.2