Background story: Followed friend's advice; made an OKC account. Messaged girl, she's pretty awesome, she's an hour flight away, progressed to huge messages of 13-16 paragraphs, then suddenly she drops off the face of the planet. I find her on FB a week later through a miraculous search (first name + company worked at), she accepts friend request and messages me back.
It's been a day since she saw my last message to her, but still no response. I don't see any other guys on the wall/photos, so I'm a bit confused by the sudden fall out if there's some other guy making a move. She also disabled her OKC account after I disabled mine (friend checked).
I'm thinking of making a last ditch effort for this since I really, really like her. You don't write 4-page term papers with someone (both sides) if you didn't like each other. Maybe.
Do I message her asking for her phone number OR mention that I'll be in her city in 3 weeks for a business trip and would like to take her out to coffee? Or maybe both. I suck at wording it out.
Any advice would be really awesome, thanks!
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You can try.. I'd say it's possibly a lost cause. She might already be in a relationship or just isn't interested. Maybe she talked to someone about you and they griefed her so much that she doesn't want to talk to you now?
I don't mean to be negative, but bad things do happen.
You can always tell her that you really like her and want to see if things will work out. If not, move on to the next one.1
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