I have a bf. I met another guy online, talked to him for about 4 months then met him in person every weekend for 6 times. he knew about my bf from the start, however he said he loved me and wanted to keep seeing me and win me over to be his gf. I had tried to end it with him almost every time after we met up but somehow he always managed to convince me and we ended up seeing each other again.
After the last time we saw each other which was 5 days ago, I told him we can't see each other anymore this time he seems to be very hurt and offended by it so he said he will delete and block my number and never bother me again if I want just say the word and it ll happen to which I replied yes lets do that.
I haven't heard from him for 5 days now and miss him so much. I know we're doing the right thing but somehow it just hurts and I miss him like crazy. should I contact him again or do you have any idea on how to forget someone?
for some personal reason, I just can't leave my current bf yet...
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Take this experience as a lesson for the future. If you are in a relationship don't go out with others no matter what. It will only end up causing you pain because you will always end up loosing at least one, if not both of the people you care about and will loose their trust permanently. This is one of the worst things that you can do to your partner. You have been disloyal and unfaithful and I think that you know this.
You did the right thing in stop seeing him however you really shouldn't have put yourself in this situation in the first place.
The guy you have been seeing sounds like his is more after the thrill of the case rather than actually wanting you - he will almost certainly leave you if you left your current partner for him. He is looking for a thrill and sex rather than a relationship.
The only thing you can do is to be honest with your current partner about it (if you lie and he finds out later it will be horrible and probably end your relationship) and hope that he can forgive you. Take this as a lesson and ensure that you never make this mistake again.1