So.. My girlfriend of almost 4 months asked me today if she could do something with my consent. After she told me what was up.. I was appalled.
Her ex, as she described him to me as a "player" had asked her out. She informed me of this and asked if she could except his offer...
After hearing this, I asked her why is gods name she would do this? We've been really strong lately, no arguments, just good times. But apparently, she sees it as an "opportunity" to get back at him for hurting her.
After sharing my view with her, she insisted that she'd do it anyway.
I'm having such a hard time with this for not only the fact some bitch ass nigga walking and talking with my girl, but it's the same bitch ass nigga she left me for a couple months back.
In conclusion, I'm confused as fuck.
So can y'all help me answer some Q's?
Whys he even matter if me and her are happy together?
Should I break it off?
Should I be ok with this?
What exactly should I do?
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dump her thats ridiculous she can't do that to you. you're her boyfriend, not him. how would she feel if you did that with one of your exes? the best way to get back at him for hurting her would be 1. reject him and 2. show him what a wonderful boyfriend she has now (aka you). you should not be okay with this, no one would be. he logic is skewed and completely irrational. i feel like she wants to be with him and you at the same time and so she's trying to find a way to do this.2