My ex dumped me, and then wanted to go out with me again. This was not the first time it happened to me.
The first time I refused to go out with the girl because she betrayed me once why would I trust her again.
The second time it happened was years later with a different girl. She wanted to go out with me again, I said I wasn't sure and just wanted to be friends. Then one day she says she loves me, and I said I loved her too (even though I didnt, and she cried because she was so happy).. At that point I knew I would probably break her heart but kept thinking maybe I would eventually fall in love.
A few months after that it ended. I never really loved her, but I was a little sad that it ended. I never saw her as being a good person or someone worth loving, but she was very attractive and it felt good to make other guys jealous.
Does this make me a bad person?
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nope dude it doesn't make of you a bad person...for the 1st girl (she is the one to have betrayed you) for the second one ;you didn't really loved her, it was only attraction..you were kind to her in saying that you love her only because you know she is a good person and you didn't wanna hurt her feelings...you caused no harm dude0