I don't want to force him into a relationship with me, but I need something from him. I want to tell him that if he doesn't want to be exclusive with me then we need to end things. I don't mean that right now we have to be boyfriend-girlfriend, tell everyone we're together, post it on Facebook, etc. but knowing that he is only interested in and wants to be with me would mean a lot to me. We say we care about each other and miss each other and talk about spending time together when he gets back from overseas, but that's not holding him back from anyone else or reassuring me. Does this sound like a bad idea lol
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Hmmm...Well, it might not be a bad idea, especially if you want him to be exclusive to only you. He's in the military, correct?
My S/O is in the military, and him being gone a lot, sounds like you want to know he's only faithful to you, title or not. Talk to him about it. Maybe not give him an ultimatum, but talk to him first. See what he thinks about the idea.0