So im 22 and I've never had a boyfriend, and iv slept with 3 guys. First one i was in love with and we dated for a long time but he was a total douche to me, the 2 one was a one night stand, the 3 one was a guy i dated, the last guy i dated who was amazing but i guess some personal issues and bad timing was going on and he pulled himself away from me again breaking my heart, because he was so kind and so nice and sometimes you meet a person and its so easy and effortless, and he was that kind of guy and we had so much in common.
Basically im sitting here thinking what is the point? what is the point of trying and trying and always ending up falling and getting hurt, i like being alone and not have that bubbly feeling and be okay and not sad because someone makes me feel like im not worth it.
I've devided to never date, and i mean it, im never going to do this, I've learned my lesson, and I've dated 5 guys total and it hasn't been great until the last guy i dated which i mentioned above.
Why date and meet a great guy and not have it work out?
So how do i deal with this?
Im tired of giving my all and falling
Most Helpful Guy
:), you are still very young.
You will date again we both know this :).
Here is best I can tell you:
Pain sucks but it is the pain we go through that makes us better stronger people. It also allows us to gain greater enjoyment from the good parts of life.
Second best piece of advice is make sure you are happy with and love yourself. It is very hard if not impossible to sustain a relationship if you are not content with yourself.
Last thing is dont try to make the wrong guy the right guy it will fail every time. That is you can not change people nor should you allow infatuation to cause you to overlook the negatives of a person.0