25 year old female, and no real relationships... i have just had the worst experiences with men, i come from a broken family so I feel like i never had an example of what a relationship should be, or how i should be treated.. . or how i should treat the person in my life.
honestly, im just getting worried. i see everyone introducing their fiance's around, and their boyfriends, and i've never even had anyone to introduce to my friends or family...and its now becoming depressing.
i am in the middle of launching a start-up that is going very well... this is the focus of my life (my work brings me absolute happiness...)
but, just seeing other people in their relationships is starting to make me feel like something is wrong with me...
will i be single forever? i'm an attractive girl, but i really don't do well with men... (i don't like women) men just dont seem to like me very much... or if they do its usually for the wrong reasons. none of them ever want to make me their girlfriend...
is there hope for me, or should i just accept the fact that no one wants me.. lol.
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1) make sure you are picking the right guy... your family history might actually influence the type of guys you get attracted to, who happens to be also don't commit
Make sure to understand your attachment style, and have a look at your past relations, and see if your exes were emotionally available. try to assess what do you like about a guy... and see what are the non-negotiable traits... and those traits are good to be their but not the end of the world if they don't exist.
2) Careers are great, and I will marry a woman that has a job, because I don't want her to be bored. But also as a man... I know damn well, that without a lady in my life who I love and seek to grow old with her, I might as well just die now... that is me.. so don't trick yourself of where is the major source of happiness in your life... knowing that would help you avoid the fatal mistake of not finding someone while you still can.
3) people are equally responsible about their destiny. in fact you make it weather was that a business or a relationship.0