I've been dating my bf for almost a year and a half now and I'm getting so bored. We gotten into a routine where we do the same things over and over and over again. I feel like I'm stuck in the twilight zone on repeat.
I've talked to him about this and asked if we can do something new but his reply is we are fine the way we are and that I get bored too easily. All we do 2-3 times a week is watch Netflix and have sex then fall asleep.
I tried planning things where we have picnics in the park or go see a play, taking a fun couples class. But those are all my ideas and he doesn't even attempt to think of anything himself.
Am I being unreasonable in wanting some new activities besides moved all the time?
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People can have two different levels of the need to go out, I'm like you and my wife is much more like your bf. you really have three options. One is to accept that this is the way he is, and you take the responsibility for your activities indefinitely. The second is to break up and find a partner who wants to be more active. The third is for us to swap partners (j/k)1