-Im feeling alright = Im feeling alright.
-Im Bored = Im bored
-Im not doing anything = Im not doing
Why is there always some underlying message that doesn't exist?
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Girls overthink EVERYTHING! This happens more when a girl likes the guy. It's mostly a defense mechanism. Girls can't help but consider all possibilities by over-thinking simple statements, most times turning it into the worst thing possible and worrying about it. From personal experience, it's also a trust thing. Girls assume that guys aren't straightforward with them, either because they are dishonest or don't want to hurt her feelings by telling the whole truth. So, they prepare themselves for anything by considering all the possibilities of what a simple statement could mean.
If you are interested in a girl who does this, start your "simple statement" with reassurance or just a little specificity. "I'm not doing anything, just sitting at home watching TV" or "I'm bored, what are you up to?" Mostly, always be honest to prevent girls from thinking they have to overthink it to be sure.5