there is this country bar I occasionally go to some Saturdays , last night I saw this girl and she was all that , good looking , fun , nice personality and I totally had the hot's for her. I mean a lot of girls go to this bar its very popular so its not like she was only girl I saw that night but I just had to have her and after she was done dancing with gf I immediately asked her is she wanted to go get a drink with me and got no where with her at all. she didn't even ask for my name , she wasn't rude in the sense but maybe didn't know me enough to be interested. I don't know what else to say I wanted this girl so bad why couldn't she had just say yes and we could of got to know each other that night instead.
anyways do you think I asked her too soon for a drink? should I have talked to her for longer first? was it a bad idea to ask drink all together? it seems odd to me that a girl who did not have a drink at that time would turn down a free drink even if she didn't like me
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Personally, I think your approach was rather rudimentary. Approaching a woman and asking to buy her drink is a cliché pickup line which suggests that a guy is attempting to win a woman over by buying her a drink or, as in many cases, trying to take her home.
Not good, my friend. Not good. For if she is all that as you've described, she is regularly hit on by guys who use that same line, that same approach and, as a result, her antennas may have told her you are no different from most guys who want in.
Why did you not ask her to dance? Why did you not introduce yourself to her to strike up a conversation?0