I was recently dating this guy, we talked online for about a month - video chatted an texted he was great we had a lot in common loved talking to each other. We met and spent a few weeks of time together - cumulatively - and he gave me the brush off. He finally told me that he thought he'd be attracted to my shy, reserved personality, but it just didn't do it for him. I have encountered this quite a lot. What is the deal?
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My favorite type of women to be honest, they make the best girlfriends by far. I've dated the high energy, high strung, super sociable girls and it never works out between me and them. They're usually into partying, drinking, etc. Shy, reserved women are really, really attractive to me but I do of course expect her to open up and get comfortable with me after we've been dating for a while. From your update, it seems like you're great, if you're engaging and open to doing things with the guy, I see no problem. Make sure you're not coming off as cold and/or disinterested and that you warm up to the person eventually. I don't see how you can be boring. Shy/reserved doesn't mean lack of personality, its just a certain type of disposition. I think you're fine, you just need to find the right guy, we all have our types.2