I don't have very many insecurities when it comes to myself, but one that I know is definitely there concerns this matter. I have certain personal beliefs and one of them is not giving myself up before I'm married. I tell this to guys before we get into anything so they really can't blame me afterwards but every time, without fail, it ends up being the reason for arguments. This last time I was with a guy I really genuinely cared about and was starting to fall in love with. In the end though, things turned horribly and in our last argument he said some things that really hurt- among them, calling me naive and saying he wasn't attracted to me... Almost immediately after I found out he slept with a girl that I'd specifically told him emotionally abused me on more than one occasion. I don't know if he did that to hurt me or if he truly found her attractive over me. I can definitely attest she is not naive, dresses a lot more provocatively than me, and has a list of guys she sleeps with. It pains me that he would throw everything we had away to be with someone that only sees him as a number. But anyways, I was just curious- would guys rather date an experienced or slightly naive girl- and when I say naive, I just mean in that one area.
- ExperiencedVote A
- NaiveVote B
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Naive/less experienced rather than experienced
I think naive is the wrong word, your making a conscious choice. Naive would be sleeping around thinking that someone will respect and love you for it. He sounds like a very insecure person who felt like his male ego was bruised so he done it to hurt you, blame him not her. It's a horrible lesson in trust, but live and learn, not the same experience but i've had my share off people acting out like that. You will spot people like him a mile away next time.1