Can you believe my boyfriend's mother hates me and doesn't even know me? I am no longer welcome at their house because she overheard him on the phone to me after he cancelled a date 25 minutes before he was due to pick me up, VIA TEXT MESSAGE. It was rude so I called him and told him I wasn;t impressed. Next thing, I am told I am no longer allowed to call their landline or stay over. Nice huh? Then this weekend she sends him a text message asking if there were any nice women at MY friend's wedding!!! I mean how low is that?
He doesn't want to start any arguments with her, but what can he do? any ideas? am I being unfair asking him to have my back?
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He needs to tell his mother that she owes you an apology. You deserve at least an explanation for such rudeness. And that if she has some sort of unresolved problem, it is wrong for her to make it your problem.
But if things cannot get resolved, inquire with him if he feels it's truly still worth it for the two of you to be romantically involved. And if not, stay good friends but realize that you cannot be more. If his mother is going to act like a complete lowlife, then the last thing you want is to become a daughter-in-law.
Today, she's being a rude bitch. Tomorrow, she's putting antifreeze in your orange juice. Just let that sink in.0
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