I'm dating this awesome guy. He likes me, we have been on a few dates, and things are good. The only prob is he NEVER initiates anything. I have to text him, make plans, etc. He HAPPILY comes and enjoys the date/text, but hell will freeze before he initiates a text/date. Shy guys, can you explain this to me? I am in favor of splitting the asking out 50/50. I never expected him to do all the asking. But he seriously acts like the traditional girl in this dating situation wanting me to do all the asking. It's hard because i don't want to come off pushy and I like feeling that I'm wanted too (which doesn't happen when i have to do all the chasing). Can someone explain this to me?
What's up with shy guys that like you, go out with you, reply to texts promptly and with tons of :)'s , but NEVER initiate things?
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I am not sure if he considers you like a friend for now, in that case, don't rush anything because you will loose him.
In another case, he might be just shy and in that case, just tell him honestly how does he feel about you.0
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