Soo this new guy at work started about 2months ago and right from the start I found him attractive and I saw him eyeing me so I bluntly introduced myself and he did in return with wide smiles. I'm a cashier and he would come through my line a few times to get gum and I'd start a convo with commenting on how it sounds like he has a accent and it got us humoring with each other a bit. Well I would see him a few times on the floor but we would exchange smiles. That is, until he initiated a talk while in the break room. Since then we see each other during every shift we have together for our breaks and lunches. He calls me and ask me when my lunch is so we can share it together. I told him I put my two weeks in and now it's down to two days. He took me out for lunch yesterday and we were able to talk more. Well, I would like for us to continue moving forward in a more romantic light but I'm anxious that after I leave I won't mean anything and he'll just move onto flirting with other girls. I've heard rumors before we started talking that he was seeing two girls- outside of work- but I haven't asked him. We don't talk about age, relationship status, or kids. He constantly finds excuses to come to customer service and says things like " Josie's here, now I know it's going to be a good day." But he hasn't asked for my number. Maybe he's waiting till my last day? Maybe I need to initiate more? Despite hearing the rumors from what I have gotten to know about him he's sweet, nice, smart and very attractive. What should I do? I only have two more days of work there and I've really started to like him. I can't stop thinking about him but I want to know if he wants to move towards being more than friends because everything is so subtle and behavioral because I'm not a type to put myself out there so much. We've had talks about how we view life and what would like for our future.nshould act more on my attraction? Hmm, Help this over analytical mind of mine please!
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you're giving this guy way too much mental space. for all you know you're one of many girls he sees that day that he finds pretty. if you heard rumors about him, there's probably smoke to that fire...don't go out of your way to initiate more. he's obviously not shy or hesitant. if he wanted your number and wanted more than what he has now, he'd go after it. he has no problem making flirty comments and maing it known he's attracted so don't think that he's nervous
just let his flirtation be an ego boost to you. use that ego boost to help your confidence with other guys who are interested0