My fiancé is a total bitch, I'm not a asshole or anything but I need to deflate her ego, she knows I won't leave her and I love her deeply, it will be devastating if we broke up I'll probably have a nervous breakdown. She's been hurt before so I'm basically the nice guy she takes all her anger out on and I want to help her what can I do?
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Oh my, it sounds like you both need some counseling. I not sure but it sounds like a co dependent relationship, and the two of you don't even like each other. You might love each other, but you don't like each other and liking someone is more important in the long run.
She hurts you by being a bitch, and you want to hurt her by lower her self esteem. Not good.
Maybe time apart would help your relationship, like a separate vacation if possible. It won't hurt.1