So this is a scenario that happens a few times a week and has been happening more and more often between my bf and I. Sometimes I feel like I must be crazy like do other girls act like this?
So basically my bf goes to give his friends a ride home from a party or concert/show what ever and he leaves its like really late as is. He's only going in town and his friends don't live that far away and then ends up gone an hour. So I'm like where you at? Still waiting or what ever the excuse is and then he ends up going inside looking for his friend because their phone always is dead! Then he's gone for a few hours. And then I get really really irritated and start hardcore bitching like last night I was like same excuses over and over again. I'm just like good lies though good lies. In the end he ends up apologizing and I feel like I'm being really over the top and then I also feel justified for my reaction.
I wrote a blog on this and went on a rampage so for my more in depth look
thebrutallyhonest. weebly. com
post is under blog and is from march
But what are your opinions?
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Sounds smothering to me. If I went to pick up some friends or just to do anything while I'm out, I can only estimate how long I'll be gone. And what usually seems to happen with all but the most routine of errands is that it takes longer than expected because something comes up. This happens a lot to me at work actually, when I estimate how long something will take but then it ends up taking the whole day when I thought it would only take an hour or two.
But having a girl text or call me bitching about something that I couldn't foresee would become annoying very quickly (probably after the first time). If he's acting shady, that's one thing. But if he's drawn into helping a friend and circumstances make the situation more complicated than what he thought (friend's phone off, waiting around for them, miscommunication, etc.)...I wouldn't appreciate getting a shit storm from a girl as if I had any control over things going the way they did.
I'd say to calm this stuff down. Nobody fantasizes about being bitched at so the only thing this will do is irritate and push him away.0
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