Just I been told most people won't go after you mostly guys if their isn't abit if chase and well im not the person to do that i want the person to know im interested. But is it true that people won't bother if your to avilable or make your feelings known to fast. I just dont see why we have to play games why can't we justbe upfront when we like someone and say how we feel wouldn't it be better to know where we stand and then if nothin happens we move on to the next?
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I absolutely hate this 'chasing' crap. First of all, I feel its really unfair that in spite of so many changes in gender roles, men are STILL expected to ALWAYS make the first move. I firmly believe that it doesn't matter who makes the first move as long as it works out.
Having said that, 'chasing' is out of the question. I have other, more important things to do than waste my time 'chasing' someone, when I'm not even sure if she likes me or not. I don't mind making the first move if I'm really interested. But if she expects to be 'chased', then she's gonna be let off my hook instantly. Its her loss, not mine.2
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