I met a guy, we seem to get in touch very well, and he always invites me to parties, BBQ and so on, almost every day. We have many common points.
Most people say it's fine to be with someone ten years older than me, but I'm 19, and he's 29... I don't think it does really bother me, and him neither :) but I keep thinking he'll be 30 next year and ill be 20 only, and I'm wondering what's gonna happen... I wouldn't want to lead him on...
what s your point of view on this ? have you ever experienced that kind of relationship ?
(plus, I'm going to live abroad for a year, and come back only once a term)
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I would enjoy his company now. Who knows what could happen. My parents are 12 years apart and still married (not to mention in love). I have dated someone 13 years older and I can say that there were some positives and negatives. The positives were that he was experienced, saavy to the world. The negatives: He threw my age and lack of experience in my face when we'd fight, he already had the kids and marriage and wasn't interested in doing it again, he had years of emotional scars he let get to him and wasn't going to change. There are always downsides and up sides. For the time being I would just see how your friendship goes and go from there.0