I am very shy around women and have been all my life.
I was born prematurely and had a few problems as a result, weakness down the entire right side of my body. Basically my leg and arm on that side are a little thinner/weaker, I can't move the toes on my right foot at all and the fingers on my right hand move only slowly. I also have a noticable limp which is worse some days than others.
I had to wear callipers on my legs (Like Forrest Gump) until I was 16 years old and was bullied mercilessly/overlooked & often ridiculed by girls.
It hasn't held me back too much, I learned to drive can cycle a bike reasonably well etc
What would you think? Would you still give me a chance?
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- Would not make a difference87% (86)67% (10)84% (96)Vote
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You sound incredibly brave and strong regardless of any physical weakness you have, you should be proud of how far you've come :)
It wouldn't bother me at all, I use a cane occasionally myself due to incidents in my past and I know the feeling of thinking you're being stared at a lot by the opposite sex but at the same time being overlooked. It's hard to have much confidence in yourself and your capabilities when you constantly feel like there is something drastically wrong with you.
It's a confidence thing, it really is :) Once you learn your value and the value you can be to someone else, it will come across when you speak to women.
To cut a long story short lol no I wouldn't mind in the slightest, I think people who have struggled in life are all the more attractive :)3