This girl from my English class asked me going out and I accepted. without telling my girlfriend about her and telling her that I have a girlfriend.
First I was thinking on normal friends going out but then I fond that she likes me she holds my hand and e kissed goodbye.
I'm confused right now and don't know what to do.and what is right and what is wrong?
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Its clear to me that you knew this was a more than friends situation because you did so behind your girlfriends back. I think what was shocking to you, was that she returned the feelings that you did. I think you had hoped you could hang out with her without your girlfriend knowing but you didn't expect her to have real feelings for you too.
So now you're at a cross roads and you need to decide whether or not you pursue this new girl, or you stick to your girlfriend. There really isn't much to be confused about, and I can't tell you which girl to choose because I don't know either and I don't know you.
There isn't any right or wrong in this situation because it's your life. The best advice I can give you is whatever you do, whoever you end up trying to forge a relationship with, remember the humanity of the other person. Acknowledge their feelings and realize that you're going to hurt someone, and that's okay. You just need to be prepared to take what ever emotions are going to be thrown at you because you deserve them. But, in the grand scheme of things you need to do what's best for you and ultimately this decision will be better for both of them as well.3