I've started dating recently and I find it hard to relax and be myself so often i say silly things that dont make sense. I worry about what this guy wants with me like just a hook up and it makes me nervous.. Does anyone else do this and what are some tips to relax and be yourself? Also how do I know if the guy does just want to play around or not?
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A woman pretty much has complete control on a date. Women control sex. So you have total control of any date. It is always strange to me why women get nervous when all the pressure is on the guy. But feelings are feelings.
One way a guy can make himself more calm before a date is to masturbate. takes away all the sexual tension and clears our minds. you could try that. otherwise just tell yourself you have complete control and hopefully that will help.