I consider myself outgoing
I'm just curious if you had two guys with equal qualities and features which would get the date me pick.
Some explanation would be nice too but not necessary
Do more women like a shy guy or an outgoing guy?
I consider myself outgoing
What Girls Said 18
Depends on the guy. A shy guy who never wants to go outside and/or be around people would be a drag. As would an outgoing guy who never wanted to spend time alone and always had to be outside somewhere.
I like well balanced people. I'm introverted, but I enjoy socializing to some degree. I could date either as long as they complimented my personality.1
I prefer an outgoing guy because I need someone to balance out my introverted personality, and get me out of the house and doing stuff. I also have a lot of anxiety so its good to have someone who isn't afraid to do some of the things that scare me (even though most seem simple to most people its a huge deal for me and is hard to get past).0
I'm a really outgoing person and am best friends with an introvert, but surprisingly I'd rather have somebody that's more towards outgoing but not quite as outgoing as I am. I'd prefer someone who is adventurous and not an introvert because I like to converse with people and have them equally interested in the conversation, and most of the shy people I've met tend to not like conversing or giving their opinion as much as I do... Lol. I also like to know what's wrong when I ask, and not have them try to deal with their problems themselves. :-) i think there are benefits to both personalities but I'm more attracted to someone who likes to get involved in the action, so to speak. :-)1
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I like introvert because I can relate. I love having to not explain myself and for some reason introverts get it, but my bf is an opposite. It's true that opposites attract. He is a social butterfly and I do not mind staying home for long periods. On the other hand we can pick at eachother for these reasons.1
I prefer shy guys as they are easier to have fun and tease a bit if u know they like u
Its also pretty good feeling making strong confident guy go weak at the knees in ur presences1
I'd be happy to go out with either, as I'm quite introverted, I'd find a shy guy more relatable in that sense as we'd have that in common. However, as I would like to have more confidence, an outgoing guy would definitely help - as in that it would be easier to keep the conversation going, and help bring me out of my shell I guess. :)0
I'd prefer an outgoing guy be because I'm more shy or outgoing depending on who I am with and am not as comfortable with someone who talks less than me. That would leave a lot of dead air between us.0
I'm a reserved kind of girl so an outgoing guy is what I find attractive.0
What Guys Said 6
Even the most outgoing females are painfully passive when it comes to guys!0
You could do a poll next time FYI. I'm guessing they like the outgoing guy0
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