My boyfriend and I have been dating seven months now. Recently we went through a rough patch where I'm trying to go to school but also want a break from working before I get back into working till I retire (planning on being a lawyer) and anyways he got tired of me asking for little things like money for food and a slush. So we argued and hit a rough patch but lately he has been more affectionate. Bought me a new game and started offering me money again. Then I realized he was texting a new girl. I soon found out it was all day every day for the past week almost. And recently he told me his "friend" wants to hangout and I kind of got mad because I just moved to the city and don't know anyone or anything and I have begged him numerous times to hangout with me but when he does it always seems like I'm forcing him to and it breaks my heart. I have no friends here and he is basically my only friend aside from my mom who takes me to movies now. But that's once a week. I live with him and so at night I checked his phone out of curiosity (I know psycho here) and his texts seem flirty with this girl and I just realized their texts seem like they just met. So now today is the day he is going to hang out with her and I don't feel right about it but I don't want to stop him either because I caused him so much stress lately. I caught him once before nearly sexting this other girl in the beginning of our relationship. After a lengthy talk mixed with tears I gave him a second chance. But now it seems like he's back at it again and I asked him numerous times if he would cheat on me but he said no every single time and I even told him I wasn't his girlfriend anymore and he said so we can sleep with other people? And I said yeah then he said he wouldn't because he loves me. Now I think I'm just being insecure but it still bothers me that he would hang out willingly with another friend rather then me when he knows I have no friends... Is it right for me to feel this way?
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Man or Woman...if you are in any kind of relationship the person in question has NO BUSINESS ever being with someone of the opposite sex. Unless their partner is there also. A woman should not hang out with a guy "friend", a guy should not hang out with a woman "friend". There is never a valid reason for this to happen. if you have to hang out with that person, then you don't need to be in a relationship. there is always a chance something will happen. I don't care how long you have been married or together...1