I have two scenarios and I want to know how you'd personally handle them or have you've handle them in the past:
1) you aren't looking for a relationship because of work/school/moving/whatever but you're attracted to a girl and think she's cool. What do you do?
2) you don't want a relationship because of the same reasons as above, but you've been having a rather intense friends with benefits situation in which case you started to develop feelings for the girl but don't want to date her or anyone and just want casual. What do you do?
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As how you describe them. I see both situations involving some lying, either to her or yourself. Neither of those situations sound very casual. To me, casual sex means something emotionless. Maybe some small talk. I really don't wanna' know much about you, your cat or past relationships...you're middle name. You're technically just using each others bodies to fulfill a sexual need. If I catch strong feelings for her i'm letting her know asap. Making a connection with someone isn't that easy.
I've always found the excuse too busy with work/school as ridiculous. You'll find the time if you're open to a relationship.0