I've been talking to this guy for awhile & I really am starting to like him but I don't think he wants a relationship. How do you make him want more than fwbs? We talk like you do soon before dating but he never want to talk about being in a relationship. Does he not like me? When we hang out we act like a couple but I don't want to say I want more that fwbs because I don't want to come off clingy. How do you know if he likes you or just wants in your pants?
- Prefer friends with benefits.Vote A
- Prefer a relationship.Vote B
Most Helpful Girl
Well first off, if he didn't like you, you guys wouldn't be in a friends with benefits relationship.
Second, you change a guys mind that strictly only wants to be in that type of relationship. Usually guys like girls that are confident and have respect for themselves. And if you do change his mind, most likely you have to be very special.
Third, you have to risk asking him. If your dying to know what he's thinking, just ask him. Believe me, it won't be the end of the world if he says no.
Remember there are plenty of fish in the sea. Remember to respect yourself. And hell if you act "clingy" you have a right to be. And if he doesn't like it, screw him.1