So this guy and I has been on and off for 3 year. We've been talking and texting for about 3 months. He just wanna to have all the benefits of a boyfriend but not title which is cool with me but than it's not because that means he can do whatever he wants with whoever. Me personally I can't just have sex with someone im not with.
I don't know what I should do. I kinda wanna iust forget about it and find someone else but im all he has. Im happ when im with him but I work two jobs and l don't wanna stress over no guy. But than again I love him but I can't be a number...
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You can not say no to your heart but you know the reality already. There is nothing good for you in this relationship.
He was honest with you, telling that he does not want a relationship with you.
It is difficult to continue a such a relationship, expecting there will be any chance to make it more solid. Don't waste your time. He will not change his idea, i am sorry :( Guys don't do usually if they decide once. You will be get hurt more if you continue.
As you stated above you deserve to be number one, not a number two three whatever. Don't be somebody's shallow.0