How to ask the guy for a date if I have feeling for him. We had sex twice in last three months and he likes it
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Ok, well first let's back the train up. Now I'm not saying it's impossible, I'm just saying your chances now are not in your favor. If you really wanted to date this guy, you should not have slept with him. He's probably not going to take you as seriously now, as he would have if you had gotten to know him better and worked on the date part FIRST, before, you know, just getting naked with him.
I guess if I were you, since you're in the spot you're in now and the best plan, isn't an option for you anymore, is to first off, don't sleep with him again. Ask him if he's interested in a date, and if he says no, move on. Once again, DON'T sleep with him again. Even if he says no now, he might consider it again later if you quit with the physical stuff.
If he asks why it's a NO now, tell him that although you enjoyed your time with him, you aren't really looking for something casual. That may peak his interest enough to consider that you might be worthwhile to date, possibly GF material.
Or, he won't care at all, and he'll move on to the next easy piece til he gets to the point where he does want a relationship and meets the girl he wants that with.0
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