I've been dating this guy for 4 months now and everything has been going great.
My friend and I were talking the other week about the "favorites" on snapchat. Well we discovered that some people have the username that they use on instagram. I did a search on the guy that i'm dating and saw that he is pretty frequently snapchating this other girl. (A girl that he had never mentioned to me yet.) *I am perfectly fine with girls and guys being just friends, that does not bother me one bit if I am told straight up the situation.
Anyways, I asked the guy I'm dating who this username was (I knew exactly who it was because of instagram) and he lied to me saying it was his buddy Rob. I said no it's not and he looked at me completely dumbfounded. Eventually he admitted it was this girl but the reason he didn't say that was because he didn't want me to be worried. He kept apologizing all day on Sunday then continued apologizing into Monday. I do know he feels bad because he prides himself on being an honest guy. I just kept repeating to him that honesty is the best policy and I don't like people who lie.
What do other girls/guys think of this? Am I over reacting?
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He's up to something. I mean come on, he's hidden her and lied right to your face. He even added the fake dumbfounded look. And if he had to lie and is Snapchatting, he's flirting with her. Emotional needs are being met in their communication.
I would absolutely drop him so fast it would make his head spin. I'd get the F out of that right now if I were you. Don't waste any more time with him. You know now that he values you so little that he would do this, but also lie to you.
Props to you for confronting him and not backing down.0