I've known my best friend for around 2 years now and after knowing her for about 2 weeks I was completely in love with her, we spend all our time together, think alike about everything, she literally describes me as the male version of herself. Anyway about 6 months into our friendship I told her how I feel and how much I love her too which her response was that she loved me too and wanted to try being in a relationship however about a week later she said that she didn't want to ruin our friendship if it went wrong. Then a week after that started dating another guy. Due to this making me feel we'll really crap I didn't see her and limited our contact to texts occasionally for about 8 months. However we then started to go to university together we instantly becoming best friends again. We started hanging out all the time at the flat she had with the boyfriend mentioned before. About two months after this she broke up with him. Telling me how he wasn't right for her anymore and how he annoys her. She then asked if I wanted to move in with her to which i said yes. Then two weeks after moving in she started dating another guy for around two months, during which I told her that I still love her completely. She told me that she loves me more than her boy friend. How she can't picture her life without me, she told me that she met me too early I'm her life but if she had to settle down now she would choose me to do it with.( I'm 19 she 21 btw) I just wish we could start a relationship together now and just try it, I love her completely and would do anything for her. I would share my whole life with her and do anything to make her happy... Help me.
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This is a girl who loves being loved and adored. After ending things with 2 other guys, she ran to you because she on some level cares about you and knows that you love her. Every girl wants to feel loved and she knows that when she's around you, she's put on a pedestal and she likes that.
This girl has no respect for you. She is taking you for granted and she doesn't view you as a man because no matter what she does or how she treats you or how she runs off to other guys, you still stick around. The only way a relationship with her is going to work is if you finally put your foot down and tell her that you can't be her friend any more and you think it's best that you take a break. After this, if she sees you going after other girls and taking girls on dates and being a man and pursuing, she's probably going to view you in a different light and regret her decision to not date you in the first place. Unless you break things off she won't have respect for you or see you as a MAN and not just her "friend" that cares about her and is always there.3