i started dating this guy 2 1/2 weeks ago and to be honest he doesn't seem that interested in me though he says otherwise. we hung out twice now and its good when we are in person with each other but obside from that he doesn't really conversate with me. I've only ever called him 3 times and he doesn't answer when chatting online he'll say one thing or ask a question and then not respond again till the next day only to say sorry and give a reason for why he was too busy to only say one thing and not respond again.. a situation happened the other day where i had to get out of my house for the night and since he's the only person i know around here (i just recently moved here) i went over to his house. he didn't hardly say two words to me and slepped on the couch instead of in his bed with me... i guess to me if i guy is actually interested i shouldn't feel questionable about it.. so im wondering if i should just let it be and stop messaging him (which is only once or twice a day) or just wait it out and see what happens.
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Just remember this one rule...a guy who is truly interested in you will put forth a lot of effort. You wouldn't have to question his feelings because you would know. Also, don't chase after any man who shows a lack of interest. It makes you look desperate and that is a huge turnoff. You shouldn't chase after men period. Especially in the beginning. It sets the tone for the rest of the relationship. If he doesn't have to put in any effort in the beginning then henever will. You can let your feelings/intentions be known and then let him do some work. A relationship is about give and take on both parts. Don't just give give give because then he/she will take take take all the time and give nothing in return.0
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